I was 17 years old and the boy I was involved with at that time came round with a pair of handcuffs and gave them to me. He said I think you need these, It suddenly dawned on me, I was one of 'those' people. Terrified and excited at the same time my journey started from there. 3 Years later I had my first Female lead relationship which lasted 3 years. He slowly became my everything, not a day went past that he didn't serve me, do as I wanted and stayed as loyal as a dog. Humiliation in the deepest form, denial, mental chastity and service..